

Apologies & Forgiveness: What you owe, and to whom
I was asked, not too long ago, to talk about when it's okay to not accept an apology. This topic frequently comes up in my work, and...


How to Be Your Partner's Safe Place
When we choose to enter into a relationship, a partnership, we are choosing to take on another human being's concerns and make them our...


Wondering why you're feeling disconnected from your partner?
So, let me start with what I mean by ‘connected,’ so we’re on the same page. To be connected to your partner is to feel in tune with...


That Money Fight is NOT About Money!
Understanding that arguments about money in the couple relationship is rarely just about money. These kinds of conversations require us to